The gender paradigm of intimate partner violence (IPV) research and theory has strongly influenced scholarly work on parental alienation. This paradigm has created a false “divide” between IPV and parental alienation scholars and professionals who work in these areas and has created unproductive and unnecessary conflict. This chapter highlights and draws parallels between research on IPV and parental alienating behaviors (PABs) to illustrate that they describe the same phenomenon. We also draw parallels in the research on how IPV and PABs affect the targets of these behaviors, their similarities in the patterns of abuse and motives of the perpetrator, and explore how children are affected. Finally, we detail how the gender paradigm has created controversies and the suppression of parental alienation and offers some solutions and suggestions on how this false divide can be bridged.